Monday, December 25, 2017

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!  
Today, I am SOOOO happy that we are celebrating the birth of Jesus, our Lord, Savior, and brother who loves us SOOO much, that He gave everything He had for us. There are no words to describe how grateful I am to Him, my Savior, and the sacrifices He made for each of us. 

I remember yesterday, we stopped by an investigator's house and asked if they were excited for Christmas and they said no, because their family was not all there. Sister Segovia and I just smiled and shared that even though being with our family is important, it is not really the reason for Christmas. Christmas is a day to be GRATEFUL for all the amazing blessings we have been given and to show GRATITUDE for those blessings by serving others. That is why I can say that this has been one of the best Christmas's ever! Even though I am far from home and my family, I've never had more to be grateful for.

I'm grateful for the beautiful apartment the Lord has provided us to live in . . .
  I am grateful for warm water, flushing toilets, and washing machines.
I'm grateful for my awesome companion...
 and kabahays who are always there to lift me up when I'm feeling down.
I'm grateful for the times I've gotten to ride in a horse drawn cart this week going from appointment to appointment (because they have horse-drawn carts here in Daet).
 I'm grateful for my mom, Julie Hess, and the other people who donated awesome new umbrellas for our Christmas gift . . .
. . . especially since my last umbrella just broke, leaving me completely soaked during the last typhoon.

I'm grateful for Jerom, Angelica, Jane, and Tatay Roberto Sayno who just got baptized in the last two weeks and have made such huge changes in their life just to come closer to Christ.
 During Tatay Sayno's testimony after the baptism, he cried as he told of how he had no idea how he was going to turn his life around, but with Christ's help, he has done just that. I know he is so grateful too.

I'm grateful for the humility and kindness of the people here.
 That even when they have nothing, they are still willing to give.

 I'm grateful that every day when I fall in the rice field on the way to our investigator and end up covered in mud to my ankles that our investigator is willing to go haul water from the lake to help me clean off the mud.

I'm grateful for Christmas Conference last week and all the things we learned while we were there to help us in this work. 
  
I'm grateful for the massive piece of JACKFRUIT that Tatay Sayno sent us home with last week and for the members who have helped make this Christmas special by giving us lots of food to eat.
I'm grateful for my family and friends back home who continue to support me here on the mission and am especially grateful to my mom for pushing me to serve a mission in the first place. I never thought I would love being a missionary soooo much! I am also thankful for all the amazing gifts my family sent me to help make this Christmas special. :)  I know the kids here are also grateful to try American candies.

But more than anything, I am grateful to Heavenly Father, that he loved the world so much that he gave His Only Begotten Son, that whoso believeth in Him might not perish but have everlasting life" (John 3:16). I'm grateful that our Father in Heaven was willing to sent that precious little baby down here as a sacrifice for each of us. 
I know that we are so loved, more than we can even comprehend. And if we strive to make this Christmas special by giving back just a grain of what They have given for us, then we will have one of the happiest Christmas's ever! Full of so much to be grateful for.

I love you all and wish you the Merriest Christmas ever! 
Love,
Sister Matheny

Monday, December 11, 2017

We've got this!

It has been another very good and very busy week here in Daet as it feels like we have so much to do and so little time. What adds even more to the stress is that it seems like day after day we have added meetings and responsibilities which means we have to work even harder to fit everything into our schedule. But all is well, because despite all that, it was a great week.

For one, this week actually started in Naga! Last Monday we woke up early in order to go to Naga for our Missionary Leaders Coordination.
 The bus ride was long and bumpy, but as usual, the view made up for it and in the end, MLC was actually pretty fun!
While we were in Naga, I even got to bake the cupcakes my mom sent, which were absolutely DELICIOUS! 
 (I had honestly forgotten what American cupcakes taste like!) 

Sister Segovia and I got to say hi to all of our awesome recent converts in Naga (because Sister Segovia's first area was my second area).
In addition, getting to be a part of MLC was a GREAT experience!
 It was such a great opportunity to receive extra training and ideas to help our area to progress and I learned just a little bit more of what I am supposed to do as an STL.
 Finally, I even had the opportunity to talk to Sister Habla on the phone while we were in Naga and was so happy to hear that they seem to be doing awesome and having great success in Iriga. From what I heard, it sounds like Nanay Norma's (one of our investigators in Iriga) baptism was amazing and she even cried during her testimony. I am so happy for her and glad that I was blessed to be a part of her conversion story.

Anyways, upon getting home Tuesday night, I was so exhausted that I went straight to bed, so by the time I woke up Wednesday morning I was all energized and ready to get to work.

To be honest, I had really missed proselyting as it had already been two days since the last time we had actually taught.

So from Wednesday on, our week went pretty normally. We have been SUPER busy as we have so many amazing investigators to get to, but that's alright, we got this!

I remember one thing that stood out in particular was with the Oporto family the other night. This family is ABSOLUTELY amazing! And I have been surprised time and time again when after going over to visit them, they have always read and are so willing to keep commitments. In addition to them, I am also constantly amazed by Nanay Najera, as week after week she strives to bring all 5 of her small kids, plus 3-4 more of her nieces and nephews (about ages 4-15) to church all on her own each week.

She is such an amazing example to us of motherhood and we can see from all her efforts how hard she is trying to strengthen her family and help them have a better life.

I remember the first time we went our to visit Nanay Najera being surprised when we saw their home. For one, we had to trek through a slippery rice-field (I am always falling at that part) to get to their tiny home/shack. There are 7 of them living in that tiny home about half the size of my living room back home and their floor is nothing but dirt, which turns to mud whenever it rains. In addition, there are times that they really struggle just to put food on the table (...they don't actually have a table or chairs in their home) but despite all that, Nanay is always expressing how grateful she is for all the blessings Heavenly Father has given her to help her push through.

In addition, I have also been amazed by Tatay Sayno and his wife as week after week, he has been striving to live the Word of Wisdom and come to church so that he can reach his baptismal date on December 23.

Tatay Sayno and his wife are 60+ and their house sits at the bottom of a big slope. To get to it, you have to climb down this big makeshift wooden ladder (which I always almost fall off of each time we visit).

Because Tatay's wife had a heat-stroke a few years ago, the left side of her body doesn't function properly, so she has to use a wheelchair to get around. In addition, their home is pretty far from the highway, so it is hard to find a tricey to get anywhere.

All that being said, this couple has faithfully made it to church each week, never complaining about the challenges they have to face to get there each week. To make coming to church possible, Tatay will carry Nanay up their slope and push her wheelchair down the road until they can find a tricycle to take them to church (sometimes taking 30+ minutes).

In addition, to make reading the Book of Mormon possible, Tatay tied a wire and light socket over his chair and will borrow the neighbor's light-bulb whenever he wants to read (since he can't see the words unless the room is very bright and they only have 1 light bulb for the entire home).

All in all, seeing some of the sacrifices the people here make just to come to church and read the Book of Mormon makes me appreciate my life and all the blessings I grew up with so much more.

Last Saturday morning, I had a small opportunity to express my love for the people here by spending the morning pulling weeds at an investigator's house in the pouring rain.
  Yes... it was cold, wet and muddy
Yes... it was slippery and I almost fell countless times, but afterwards I felt so happy and blessed to have been able to give back just a little bit for a family who is giving so much!
Overall, I am grateful for the opportunity to serve here, all the amazing people I have met and my awesome companion who is always pushing me to work harder and do more. I LOVE my mission and am so HAPPY to serve here! But more than anything, I am so grateful to my Heavenly Father and all He has done to answer our prayers and help us to reach our goals each week. This week, I am really going to strive to remember Him and do my best to give back a little part for all He has done for me.

Until next time! Have the greatest week ever!

Love,
Sister Matheny

Monday, December 4, 2017

My First week in Daet . . .

So another week of missionary work has come and gone and we are working harder than ever here in DAET to help get our area moving. 
Since last week when I first got my transfer call that I would be moving to Daet, so much has happened! I have traveled A LOT and have been spending a lot more time adjusting to my new area and my new companion.

There are a lot of things I miss about Iriga... Sister Habla was a great companion and I definitely feel like I learned to be more LOVING from her, and in addition I also miss my investigators there a TON! When I went to go say that final goodbye Monday night to some of them, I couldn't hold back a few tears. But that's alright, I know it is for the best, and little by little I am growing to love Daet as much as I loved Iriga. I know that if I just continue to put in my best and give it my all here, then I will be able to completely adjust and the Lord will help make me able to do everything that is asked of me.

For one, I am SUPER excited for this upcoming transfer with SISTER SEGOVIA! She really is an AMAZING missionary! And I learn so much from her every day! For one, she has such a great vision for this area. I remember when I first got here, she told me that she wants to get 20 investigators at sacrament meeting! When I heard that, I immediately remembered my time back in Naga when I said the exact same thing to Sister Black.

I knew then that it was possible, just like I know now. But I also know it won't happen unless you get a set of 2 missionaries who both believe with all their hearts that it is possible and are willing to work with all their strength to make happen.

Well... I feel like that is definitely something both Sister Segovia and I can do! Up until this week, both of us had a record sacrament attendance of 13, but just this past week (mostly because of how AMAZING Sister Segovia is) we managed to raise that number to 18! I was SOOO amazed that within the first week of this transfer, we were able to reach that many investigators at church, and suddenly our goal to have 20 investigators at church started to seem low. Suddenly, I started to think that it might even be possible to have 30 investigators attend sacrament meeting if we just keep working hard and doing our best every day.

Speaking of working hard, Sister Segovia really is a hard worker. I am so grateful to be her companion and just this past week, I have already seen that I think this companionship is really going to push me to improve, work harder and do more. For one, I already know that I am going to have to learn to be MORE CLEAN! Because the only thing that seems to bother Sister Segovia is a messy house. I really like Sister Segovia, and I don't want her to hate me because I am a messy person, so on our first day, we sat down and had a "serious" conversation.

In that conversation, I told Sister Segovia "Look: I know I am not a clean person, so I am sorry if I make a mess... but I want to change! So please if I make a mess, don't hesitate to tell me and I will make sure to clean it up right away". Hopefully that will help...

Also, we really are dieting in Daet! 
Because Sister Segovia seems obsessed with eating vegetables! Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with veggies, but they are just different in the Philippines!  So are the fruits . . .
But, it seems like all the vegetables here are really mushy, which I am not a big fan of. So to be honest, I haven't really eaten many veggies in my entire mission! And now, Sister Segovia wants me to eat them! So hopefully I will lose some weight because of that.  

Anyways, today, I actually happen to be emailing from NAGA! Because we got to come into town for our Missionary Leadership Meeting tomorrow (MLC) which I am excited for! It will be my first time getting to go to one of those meetings so I am really curious to see what will happen... even though it was a 4 hour drive to get here to Naga.

About the whole leadership thing... it is not nearly as bad as I thought! From the start of the week, I have already seen what an amazing blessing and opportunity that being an STL can be, because it will give me the opportunity to help and serve even more people! Which just means that I need to work harder and pray for help from the Lord because HE is the real LEADER and TEACHER here, so we need to all do our best to listen to Him.

I remember when we got to do call-in summary reports last night, and follow-up on the success of each companionship of sisters in Daet, I felt so blessed for the opportunity to learn from each of them and the things they are doing that are successful so that we can incorporate it into our own work as well.

In addition, because we came into town today for MLC, I also got to see Sister Sosoter and Sister Cobral (my kabahays and STLs in Iriga) and they let me call and catch up with Sister Habla for a minute. When I talked to her, I almost started crying because it was so good to hear from her and to follow-up on all the people I love there. In some ways, I feel like it finally gave me the "closure" I needed to leave behind that area and give my full effort to Daet.

Anyways, I have seen the Lord's hand helping us every step of the way here and  have been grateful for His help throughout the mission! We are excited for Christmas here and just want to share the true meaning of CHRISTmas with everyone we can during this special month.
 Thank you again everyone for your emails and support, it really does mean a lot to me! Until next week, I hope you all have an amazing week!

Love,
Sister Matheny